Awkward moments stem from the “thereafter negative reactions” and an “inherent point of view (perception)” being passed on that is unclear or clouded.
To understand this, clinical or common psychologists need to demystify the word “perception”.
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In today’s world that largely depends upon the “WHAT”, “WHEN” and “HOW” of communication that matters, I have had many awkward slip-ups in life, due to the common unreasoning of what was being done at that moment or lack of perception (of even the so-called advisors in the healthcare industry).
I distinctly remember that when a close family member expired, it was a period of grief, learning and significant difference to all of us in the family.
As the so-called advisors or other members had already set the trend that something was wrong, I faced a slip-up due to a speck of their unreasoning that “SOMETHING WAS UN-PERCEIVABLE FOR THEM AND THAT SHOULD STAY quoted as in the years involved”.
Due to this speck, I could not “protectively, emotionally and financially” add any helpful further thinking that - life persists sometimes...
My aim to strengthen this “life persists reasoning” did not reach a “single person” who attended the after death ceremonies. In our religion these ceremonies initiate a transition of the soul from a real world to a universal realm of energies from where it finds its emergence.
For anyone experiencing the trauma of the loss of a dear one (in this health threat 2020):
To look past the slip-up, my communication that could help people was titled “Happy moments in all our lives”. It reads as follows...
When lives are a crowded lifetime of tilts and balances...
If as adults (able or otherwise) you find that your issues cause a tilt in your happiness...
You must find a special meaning to balance the tilt...
Here the tilts in life are “Losses, Debts, Hate, Limits and Fear”. The balances in life are “Profit, Gain, Love, Courage and Finding”.
To balance any such tilt, you need to connect to what a child does in beginning as a heavy feeling in a woman’s womb or as an interest to grow or evolve...
To gradually come alive to step forward in happiness
Irrespectively where this expectation is not a carte blanche (of specks of corrupt psychology) for all, but a real finding that can resolve your problems if you seek a (pure and significant) balanced happiness in all experiences.
This said, the self is part of all of us...
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